My heart was bursting with joy this past weekend as my daughter,
Kiera Hua, married her best friend,
Curtis Nishihira. ❤️
As my wife,
Antonette Hua, and I walked her down the aisle, I was smiling ear to ear while crying tears of joy at the same time.
There are moments in life when years of memories are condensed into a few seconds.
I thought about meeting Kiera for the first time when we adopted her in Guangzhou, China, at 14 months old.
I thought about the little girl we brought home who smiled and laughed all the time, who loved sweets, and who hated the feeling of sand on her feet.
I thought about the first time she said, "Baba." ("Dad" in Mandarin.)
And then I looked beside me and saw this remarkable young woman beginning a whole new chapter of her life.
What a journey it has been.
The road has been long and winding, with breathtaking highs and frighteningly dark lows. Through it all, Kiera has become stronger and wiser.
Antonette and I are enormously proud of the woman she has become—resilient, kind, determined, joyful, and deeply loving toward her friends and family.
This wedding wasn’t simply a celebration of a happy occasion. It was a celebration of who she has become.
And somehow, my heart got to swell twice that day.
Our son,
Stephen Hua, officiated the wedding. His words were thoughtful, funny, wise, and deeply personal. Hearing one of my children speak so beautifully about the other brought tears to my eyes all over again.
And then there is Curtis.
Curtis, I am so grateful for who you are and the way you love our daughter. You are kind, considerate, adaptable, fun-loving, driven, and a wonderful partner to her. (You also love Star Wars and the MCU, which is a plus.)
What I treasure most is that the two of you aren’t simply in love. You’re best friends.
You laugh together. You support one another through thick and thin. You bring out the best in each other. (And the fact that you convinced Kiera to take up skiing despite her utter disdain for cold weather is truly a miracle.)
That’s a beautiful foundation for a marriage.
People sometimes talk about marriage as "giving away" a daughter, but that’s not how it felt to us.
We aren’t losing a daughter. We’re gaining a son and another family.
Kiera and Curtis now have two families who love them deeply, are cheering for them, and will be there for them through whatever life brings.
May your life together be filled with love, laughter, grace, growth, soup, boba, pickleball, and many adventures.
I can't wait to see the beautiful future you create together, Mr. and Mrs. Nishihira! ❤️